Clearing Something Up
Okay, so for those of you who read the "comments" that family and friends write after each post... you saw a not so nice comment yesterday. The commenter knew it was in bad taste or otherwise they would have signed their name. After just a small amount of research, I figured out who the person was because I can track who visits my site (how and when they got there, etc.). Anyway, maybe it's my hormonal imbalance due to the pregnancy... but, I was more than offended by the comment. It really bothered me at first. But, then Josh and I talked about it and I realized that quite simply, this person does not know us or our story very well. So, in case this person decides to come back to my blog... I wanted to let them personally know that my husband and I suffered with fertility problems for a year and a half before I got pregnant with Isaac. All we have ever wanted is to have a family together and we are SO excited to finally be making our dream come true. Isaac has been loved from the very moment we found out I was pregnant and we have been preparing for him since then. I am choosing to be a stay-at-home mom for our son and he will be raised in a loving, Christian family. We do indeed know how fortunate we are to have a healthy pregnancy and supportive family and friends. Anyone who truly knows us knows that Isaac is wanted and will be smothered with as much love as two parents can possibly give a child.
P.S. Most women are miserable at 39 weeks pregnant and can vent on their blogs if they choose to do so. :)
posted by Laura @ Wednesday, November 30, 2005
5 comments
5 Comments:
Don't worry about it honey. At this stage in your pregnancy you are just ready to meet your baby you have been looking forward to for so long. I know just what you are feeling. Been there.
laur- we talked about this last week. while i haven't been there and can't understand the excitement you have to meet the newest member of your family, i can certainly relate to unwarranted and unneccesary blog comments.
hang in there. and remember you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. what you choose to share is entirely up to you. you're not looking for validation from others through your blog. you're providing an interesting outlet for those you love to know what you're going through as you anxiously await sir isaac's arrival.
now go back to doing laps around the neighborhood... i want to see this kid.
I was laughing when you told me you wanted to kick your doctor.
You and Josh will be the best parents ever and your friends and family know how terribly long you've waited for Isaac. You've loved him long before he was even created. Don't worry about that comment. You are right. You have every right to vent on YOUR blog (not that you really vented all that much. Believe me, doctors can be frustrating, especially if they are all telling you different things.) I wish you the best delivery ever and a wonderful life with your little boy!!!
Thanks, girls... I feel much better about everything now. :)
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